He played with the kids in one of the rooms and all of a sudden they came downstairs to show us the money he paid them.apparently they had to message him.we were so embarrassed and my husband flipped. Then, recently, we had friends over with children between 4 and 7 of age. He likes playing with little children, to the extend that we had to tell him to start socialising with his own age.Ī couple of months ago, my sister-in-law refused to send her 9 year old daughter to our place, apparently something happened with her and our son.I thought she was overreacting. Overall he is a nice child to have around. He acts like an 8 year old around us, but when he goes home to Durban, he is a teenager (judging from the messages on his phone).
He lies a lot (master at it), is sometimes dilutional and does not show emotion. I have a 14 year old stepson who has been living with us from this year.although I see him as my own, he always make me feel uncomfortable cause I cannot read him.
I am so distraught by the whole thing and simply dont know how to handle it.